یک کتابو نگاه میکردم درباره آداب معاشرتو این جور چیزا. بعد این قسمتشو که در پایین آوردم دوس داشتم. آدم وقتی میخونه که همین کلاه برداشتنو گذاشتن چقدر ظرافت داره خوشش میاد برگرده به اون موقعها که مردا کلاه میذاشتن و خیلی آداب دان بودن. مثل فیلمای دهه ۱۹۴۰ و این حدودا.
A gentleman takes off his hat and holds it in his hand when a lady enters the elevator in which he is a passenger, but he puts it on again in the corridor. A public corridor is like the street, but an elevator is suggestive of a room, and a gentleman does not keep his hat on in the presence of ladies in a house.
This is the rule in elevators in hotels, clubs and apartments. In office buildings and stores the elevator is considered as public a place as the corridor. What is more, the elevators in such business structures are usually so crowded that the only room for a man's hat is on his head. But even under these conditions a gentleman can reveal his innate respect for women by not permitting himself to be crowded too near to them.
When a gentleman stops to speak to a lady of his acquaintance in the street, he takes his hat off with his left hand, leaving his right free to shake hands, or he takes it off with his right and transfers it to his left. If he has a stick, he puts his stick in his left hand, takes off his hat with his right, transfers his hat also to his left hand, and gives her his right. If they walk ahead together, he at once puts his hat on; but while he is standing in the street talking to her, he should remain hatless.
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